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  • How to Plan Your Death | A Guide for Single Women

    How to Plan Your Death | A Guide for Single Women

    You know why you need to plan your death as a single woman. But do you know how? In part 2 of A Spinster’s Guide to Death, I’m going to tell you how to plan your death as an unmarried, childfree woman. Why This Is a Must-Read Blog Let me be clear. You could go…

  • Why You Need to Plan Your Death | A Guide for Single Women

    Why You Need to Plan Your Death | A Guide for Single Women

    If you’re a single woman, you need to plan your death. Actually, if you’re anyone you need to plan your death. But this post is directed specifically at solo/single women. The Spinster’s Guide to Death is a 4-part series on (you guessed it): Death and the Single Woman The fear of dying alone has prompted…

  • Spinster: Making a Life of One’s Own | Book Review

    Spinster: Making a Life of One’s Own | Book Review

    Spinster: Making a Life of One’s Own is written by Kate Bolick. It’s categorized as Social Science—Feminism & Feminist Theory, but it’s more than a sociological text. It’s a biographical, autobiographical, literary theory, and psychology text. Spinster asks the question, “What does it mean for a woman to truly live her own life?” This question…

  • 3 Ways to Leave a Childfree Legacy

    3 Ways to Leave a Childfree Legacy

    What will your legacy be if you don’t have children? One of the biggest emotional problems childfree people seem to face is disappointing their parents by not having kids. I’ve already talked about how to tell your parents about you’re childfree without breaking their hearts. Today, I’m going to go into greater detail about how…

  • What Is Living Apart Together?

    What Is Living Apart Together?

    Longtime readers know that I’ve been in a living apart together situation since before I started this blog. In fact, it was my revelation about the LAT lifestyle that led me to start this website in the first place. But somehow, I’ve never written a single article about it. In this post, I’m going to…

How to Have a Meaningful Life Without Kids, by Lilli Blackmore
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